I am all for more sex positivity, but I don’t think Nerdfighteria has been particularly bad about this (at least in terms of Hank and John’s discussions of sexuality, such as in “Non-Virgin…a Lexical Gap?” and “Dumping My 15-Year-Old Girlfriend”).
Though Nerdfighterlike does say “I’d much rather touch and hug you and nothing else” at the beginning, at the end doesn’t it switch to “…and something else”?
